The article in brief
Orgasm without direct contact allows new dimensions of male sexual pleasure to be explored, thanks to age-old techniques.
- La deep breath combined with pelvic floor contractions form the basis of this practice
- The Kegel exercises are essential for strengthening the pubococcygeal muscle and controlling ejaculation
- La mental visualisation stimulates the pleasure centres without physical contact
- This technique produces more orgasms intense and diffusewith the possibility of multiple orgasms
As a urologist who has been practising for over 15 years, I regularly find that male sexuality is still surrounded by many questions. The quest for new sexual sensations leads many men to seek alternative techniques. Among these, orgasm without direct contact, often called "dry orgasm", is attracting growing interest. Today I'd like to take you on a tour of this fascinating practice, which has its origins in the Tantric and Taoist traditions, and allows you to **achieve orgasm without direct physical stimulation**.
The method for having an orgasm without touching yourself
Mental orgasm is based on a fundamental principle: to separate orgasm from ejaculation, two distinct physiological processes that generally occur together but can be dissociated. I've had the opportunity to observe this phenomenon in several of my patients who, with the right training, were able to achieve this unique experience.
Your brain plays a key role in achieving this. In fact, orgasm is first and foremost a neurological phenomenon, rather than a physical one. With the right techniques, you can stimulate the pleasure centres without any direct physical contact.
Effective breathing techniques
Breathing forms the basis of this practice. Start by making yourself comfortable in a calm environment. Inhale deeply through your nose for 4 seconds, hold your breath for 4 seconds, then exhale slowly for 6 seconds. Repeat this cycle, gradually synchronising your breathing with contractions of your pelvic muscles.
One of my patients, a 45-year-old senior executive, mastered this technique after just three weeks of daily practice. He told me that this method had enabled him to completely rediscover his sexuality.
Pelvic floor muscle control
Kegel exercises are essential for ejaculate without touching. They strengthen the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle, which is crucial to the orgasm mechanism. To practise them effectively :
- Identify your PC muscle (the one you use to stop urination)
- Contract this muscle for 5 seconds then relax for 5 seconds
- Repeat the exercise 10 to 15 times, three times a day
After a few weeks, you'll notice a marked improvement in your muscle control. You can then use these rhythmic contractions to stimulate your genitals from the inside.
Mental concentration and visualisation
Visualisation is perhaps the most powerful aspect of this technique. Close your eyes and mentally project yourself into an erotic situation. Visualise the flow of blood to your penis, imagining the sensations of pleasure coursing through your body.
Some of my patients use natural stimulants such as XTRAZEX to increase their receptiveness to these visualisation techniques, although the purely mental approach can suffice with practice.
What are the advantages of ejaculating without masturbating in the "traditional" way?
This practice offers a number of benefits that I regularly observe in my patients who have adopted it. Firstly, it allows us to explore new dimensions of pleasure. Orgasms obtained without contact are often described as more intense and deeper, radiating throughout the body rather than remaining localised to the genitals.
It also promotes better control of sexual arousal. By learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation, you develop a mastery that can considerably improve your stamina during intercourse. It's a natural solution that I often recommend to men suffering from premature ejaculation.
| Benefits | Description |
|---|---|
| More intense orgasms | A feeling of pleasure that radiates throughout the body |
| Better endurance | Greater control to prevent premature ejaculation |
| Multiple orgasms | Several orgasms can be linked together without a refractory period |
| Improved privacy | Enhanced sexual experience with your partner |
Another major advantage is the possibility of having several successive orgasms. So, without ejaculation, the refractory period (recovery time after orgasm) can be considerably reduced or even eliminated. I've worked with several patients who developed this ability after a few months of regular practice.
Practical steps to mental orgasm
To put these techniques into practice, I advise you to follow a step-by-step approach. Here are the steps I usually recommend to my patients:
- Find a quiet, private environment where you won't be disturbed
- Start with some deep breathing exercises to help you relax
- Practice pelvic floor contractions while breathing deeply
- Gradually introduce erotic visualisation
- Focus on the sensations developing in your body
Patience is essential. Most of my patients take between two weeks and three months to achieve their first significant results. Regular practice, ideally on a daily basis, is the key to success.
In my talks on male sexual health, I often compare learning to play a musical instrument: the first few exercises may seem tedious, but mastering them opens up extraordinary possibilities.
A different but very powerful orgasm
The orgasm obtained without direct contact is qualitatively different from the conventional orgasm. My patients often describe it as more diffuse, deeper and longer-lasting. Some describe a sensation of pleasure that spreads in successive waves throughout the body.
This experience can also be accompanied by a more abundant ejaculation when it occurs. The emotional intensity is generally greater, creating a feeling of euphoria that can last for several hours after the orgasm.
Don't hesitate to consult a specialist if you are experiencing persistent difficulties or if you would like personalised support in this process. Your sexual health deserves all the attention it needs to flourish.
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